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My Boyfriend's Uncle Raped Me and I'm Pregnant

By: briana (View Profile)

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My boyfriend’s uncle has raped me about four times now and I turned out to be pregnant. Its terrible my mom got so mad I didn’t tell her about the rape, should I have? I mean love is a strong word, but I truly love my boyfriend and when I told him I was pregnant he flipped out because we still haven’t had sex. He told me to tell him who the dad was and I started crying. Then he told me everything was okay. I told him the truth, that his uncle raped me he was so mad. I don’t know what to do. I’m five months right now so I have to choose soon. I want to keep it, abortion is not an option. So, I have two options: adoption and keeping him. I’m lost, I’m fourteen for crying out loud. Someone please help.

First published October 2011

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Well, thank you guys for telling me all of these decisions. My youth group director is adopting the baby. I'm currently 8 and 1/2 months pregnant. And I feel blessed that you guys answered this question for me. I've been sick lately out of nervousness and Im glad God sent you angels upon me.

How does your mom feel about what has happened to you? Prayer, Prayer Prayer is the only advice I can give you. If you attend a church you can also talk to a pastor who can also help you to go in the right direction. I myself do not believe in abortion. If you chose not to keep the baby there is something called an OPEN ADOPTION, where you and the adopted parents know each other you can choose who can adopt your baby and you will still have the opportunity to see your baby. Most cases like this, family members step in and adopt the baby or get custody in order for you to finish school...My prayer that whatever decision you make that you will have peace in your heart....Be Blessed....

I'm so sorry that you are going thru this as well! I don't know what your religon is, ask God to allow you to forgive him for doing this, so You can move forward. also a guidance counsler would also help you. I will pray for you as well. I pray for healing and protection upon you.

Thank you for your comments I am going to talk to the guidance counselor when i have time too. I dont have enough nerve to talk to the rapist well i have talked to him at my boyfriends birthday party about a month ago but i barley said anything. My mom is supporting whatever dissension i make just like my aunt did when my cousin got pregnant at 12 willingly of course.

Hey, First off, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I can imagine it's not easy, but I'm really impressed you've reached out, that's great. Secondly, this wasn't your fault so if you feel comfortable, try reaching out to your mom. She could help you feel more at ease and less confused. Same with your boyfriend. Try to build a support system. You can also talk to a guidance counselor or therapist. Most importantly, remember this isn't your fault. I truly wish you the best.