As a little girl I remember reciting the children’s rhyme "Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe.” Most of the time it was because I had a crush on some little boys; and I was trying to choose which one I liked the best. There was something so innocent about this game. Now, as I reflect on those childhood experiences I laugh because at an early age I was going about choosing a guy the wrong way. I laugh because I knew a lot of little girls just like me, who played the same game when it came to making choices about boys. Now those little girls grow up to be women and some of us are still playing “Eeny , Meeny, Miny, Moe” when it comes to choosing the right man.
When you’re a confident and attractive woman with many men to choose from; trying to decide which guy is best for you can be tricky. Especially, when there are several good potentials that are competing for your attention. So, here are five questions you should ask yourself when trying to decide which guy is right for you.
1. Do you see a future with him?
2. Is the chemistry right? Seeing him walk into a room makes your face light up and your panties wet
3. Does his character reflect what you’re looking for in a man? (i.e. Respectful, honest, humorous, encouraging, naughty ECT.)
4. Can you see yourself being friends? Remember, the foundation for a good relationship begins with friendship.
5. Does he meet your minimum requirements? You should never choose someone that does not meet your minimum standard.
So, the next time you’re choosing the right guy don’t resort to playing childhood games. However, once you do find the right guy; playing “Eeny, Meeny, Miny, Moe”can be used as a naughty bedroom game to choose which body part can be licked, sucked our eaten…
Good luck,
Shuntai Beaugard, Relationship Coach
